Cats have a reputation for being independent, indifferent and even suspicious animals, but although sometimes they can be, we should not label them, because they can also be very affectionate and tender animals. Anytime, of course.
Like humans, each animal has its own character and personality. Cats, like dogs and humans, react according to the treatment they receive.
- This means that if your cat is a bit difficult.
- The best way to start changing this situation is to improve the relationship with it.
- Continue reading this Animal Expert article where we’ll give you some tips to make your cat more affectionate.
As mentioned above, although we are all born with personality, it is true that it can be shaped with time and effort. In cats, it will depend mainly on how you live with the animal, that is, how you treat it.
If your cat is new to your home, it can be strange and uncomfortable. This is perfectly normal because your pet needs to meet you and your new home. Changes often cause stress in cats, so don’t be surprised if you see your cat reacting negatively. Make sure the environment is as comfortable as possible for him.
The basic keys to make your cat more affectionate, whether or not a new member of the family, are three: patience, closeness and a lot of love.
To make your cat more affectionate, you’ll need to change the dynamics of your life a little bit. Don’t worry, it’s just a little.
In fact, just spend quality time and time with your cat. Take your time, a cat is not an accessory to decorate the house. If you do your business, your pet can be an excellent and loving companion. Of course, it’s not about spending all day with him, it’s about doing things like letting him sleep next to you while watching TV or sitting next to you on the couch and talking to someone on your cell phone.
You may want to go a little further and let him sleep with you in bed at night or during the nap after lunch. And speaking of food, invite him to eat at the same time as you, it will be like sharing a table with a friend. Occasionally surprise him with something like a piece of fish and when he approaches you, give him a caress.
Keep in mind that felines are exceptional animals that like to be sought after and loved. Especially when you teach him to be more affectionate, you must look for him to caress him and spend time with him. So another way to make your pet more affectionate and, above all, to get your attention, is to encourage him to play with you. Having fun together, maintaining a pleasant physical contact, gives them confidence and security.
It’s not entirely true that cats love loneliness. In fact, they love the company, feeling close, knowing you’re looking at them and getting them involved in the routines of the house.
If you call your cat to accompany you and “help you”, for example to make the bed or the room, the animal will take this habit, and whenever it does, it will surely accompany you. Now, if you don’t pay attention and just feed it, the cat probably won’t be attracted to your business for anything.
If the cat is afraid for some reason and retracts and hides, it is not recommended to force it out of your comfort zone. Use one of the basic keys above, use your patience and with a soft tone try to calm it down. It’s the best way to get him out of hiding.
We must never forget that cats do not learn anything through violence. Treating and punishing him aggressively and disrespectful will only create a sense of fear in him and then, when you want to teach him to be affectionate, it will be too late and it will cost you even more. If your cat has bad behavior or bad attitude, of course you should correct it directly, but always properly and with positive reinforcement.
The same goes for exaggerated caresses. If you don’t want to be pampered, don’t force it, when your cat wants it and needs it, it will ask you. If, even after your rejection, you continue to treat it with love, you’ll see how long it will purr asking you to hug him.
The most important thing is that you learn to respect the space and personality of your pet. No matter how hard you try, some cats will always be more affectionate than others.
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